The Spinster's Exploits

Sex, sensuality and possibly spanking after seventy…

recent posts

about

The Spinster is a 70-year-old South Walian who doesn’t believe sex, sensuality and fun stop at seventy. There is more to growing old disgracefully than wearing purple 💜- although she does love purple! She considers herself to have dual sexuality as she loves vanilla but something gets unleashed when she is spanked by the right person… She is excited to have reached this significant milestone and thrilled to discover erotic possibilities can be there for the taking. Oh! And she can be a touch up herself and talk about herself in the third person – but nothing a good spanking won’t cure!😉🤭

  • The Spinster’s Exploits: Reflections on Sex, Spanking and Polyamory

    My first blog post – and my title says it all.

    So who am I and where am I? A lot of my experiences – sexual and otherwise – are fairly typical of a woman of my age and background – but some are decidedly more niche…

    I am a seventy-year-old South Wales Spinster who has decided she needed to once again reignite her sex life.

    I spent a lot of time hanging around some questionable internet sites in my fifties where I contemplated my navel and my sexuality. Someone once said he had dual sexuality – vanilla and kink, That made so much sense to me – and that is how I see myself. And the polyamory? Sometimes monogamy feels right and sometimes broadening one’s horizons seems more appropriate.

    I reached my 70th birthday in 2025 after a period of undesired celibacy and I was missing sex and sensuality. I considered myself to still have my dual sexuality and enjoyed the nudge of my libido as a reminder that I was still alive and firing on all cylinders.

    Meanwhile internet dating had got overwhelmingly ‘swipey’ and even the one I favoured with profiles wanted me to swipe regularly or be deactivated. I looked around but felt disheartened. I did feel however, I needed to be proactive. So I told friends I was interested in finding a lover/lovers and jokingly asked the Goddess and the Universe to provide…And as I had a profile still on a kink site I thought I could give things a nudge there as well. So I added some discreet pictures and posted some writing to show I was still alive and had some chats and met – and nearly met – some frustrating men – the joys of internet dating once again…