The Spinster's Exploits

We hear lots about ‘vicious circles or cycles’ – or feedback loops – how one bad thing leads to another and another and on to first and we’re on a grim merry-go-round. A classic example would be feeling miserable so eating as compensation. But overeating makes us put on weight so we feel more miserable and so we eat more…

But there are the more delightful and less-discussed virtuous circles or cycles where one good thing leads to another. I have realised that good sex with lovely people makes me feel better and being in a good mood is likely to lead to more good sex…

And in my recent return to ‘form’ after a period of celibacy my head was full of ideas that I really wanted to write about – hence the blog. And I found – as said – not only do I enjoy the creativity of writing, but it seems to feed my pleasure in my sex life. Writing makes me think about what we do and how I feel and I relive and plan and capture memories, emotions and thoughts. And that adds to my excitement and improves my actual sex-life. And my improved sex-life makes me happy and feeds my creativity so I write about it. The writing arouses me and gives me ideas which feed into my erotic encounters. And so the lovely feedback loop/virtuous circle of deliciousness spins on merrily…