The Spinster's Exploits

Sex, sensuality and possibly spanking after seventy…

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  • My lovely weekend with my delightful established sub-identifying switchy lover included a “party” we’d decided to attend. We thought it was a social for local members of the kink site of which we’re both members. We met originally at a pub social for said people. This party was at a private room in a pub…

  • Having a great time in Devon, despite dodgy weather. I was also having a lovely time getting retail therapy in one of the lovely little harbour towns. I was making such exciting purchases as a practical purse identical to my current one for when it wears out plus Thai nasal inhalers – because why wouldn’t…

  • Holiday Quickies 1I am on a weekend away with a female friend who doesn’t know about my kink side exactly but knows I have a fabulous sexlife. So thought this an opportunity for me to practise some brevity and put down some thoughts that have been in my head.Had a fabulous non-erotic weekend with my…

  • I hate changing the bedding! Today I decided to take off the electric under-blanket. It was made more difficult by how it somehow entangled its straps with the straps of the webbing of my underbed bondage system!  I managed to wrestle them apart and must test out the bondage straps some time. Oh! And must…

  • I’ve not been at my most sophisticated recently. I am thrilled to be thrilled by the undoubted sexiness of the True Blood vampires that I am now watching on DVD – I am so retro! As said – was quite shocked but entertained by the X-rated human sex that’s quite graphic. I’m not a porn…

  • …receiving rather than giving, if you’re asking… So, as I continue to explore the nursery slopes of domestic-Domme-ing my subby cross-dressing spiritual elf I wonder if this is an achievement or sign of me losing the plot. Since the big telling-off I asked him to let me know if he wanted to continue with me…

  • “And luckily my Established, polyamorous sub-identifying switchy lover is due for a visit this weekend, and our switchy games require no such deep thought and ethical dilemmas – just fun!” – Well – that came back to bite me! I think I got more than singed by him, life, the universe and some amused gods/esses!…

  • In my “definitely a spankee and only here to meet possible spankers” days I did attend some BDSM events in South Wales because there were no spanko munches. I clung grimly to my definitely-spankee-and-not here-to-play identity with the grim determination that I’d once guarded my virginity! But as a nosy bitch, of COURSE I was…

  • Well – last weekend I was all psyched up to beat up my Established, polyamorous sub-identifying switchy lover on trumped-up charges of insulting me. But it was a scorching afternoon in my conservatory where I was practicing my naturism and he looked weary and started stripping off, so I did the decent thing – and…

  • I was just thinking about “that” ad when I was looking for cyber thrills, while keeping my knickers literally and metaphorically in place! I still find the idea of an old-fashioned hand spanking a really sexy idea. Over a knee is not very practical if you are bigger and older but over his knee along…