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So I decided that I really shouldn’t do tai chi without a bath, only to find one of those ginormous meaty-legged spiders on guard… I’m not scared of spiders, but other than money spider-sized ones, I can’t bring myself to touch them. Luckily I had a spider-catching kit available – a plastic tumbler and a…
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I am sickened by the battle of two privileged, misogynistic woman-abusers going into battle over possession of the “truth” over Diana. I find both Charleses loathsome and decided to have a one-woman protest and reread “Diana, Princess of Wales: How Sexual Politics Shook the Monarchy” by the seriously impressive Beatrix Campbell. It is erudite, properly…
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So – another weekend that wasn’t exactly as planned. I felt the loss of my recent ex f-w-b more keenly because we had plans for the weekend and we were going to spend it together. As someone with personal and professional knowledge of grief and lesser losses, I believe it is important to honour and…
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So my 50-something chaotic time-poor slightly kinky widower – I did see him and I have now had the discussion about timings, and it seems he’s very happy to have monthly get-togethers at the reasonable time of about 10 0n a Saturday, when I will bravely sacrifice my Welsh chat group! Quick recap – and…
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Once again, the goddesses decided to stir things up for mice, men and feminists – but no complaints from me! I am just back from a solo trip to my local Indian, where I had a lovely meal in a very quiet restaurant. I do eat alone in caffs, pubs and restaurants at lunchtime, but…
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Well – my time-strapped chaotic widower checked in that still all ok for our early morning assignation; we both confirmed and his allocated flight time worked perfectly – more anon… I also negotiated a better time slot and we have agreed to regular sessions every month or so. Meanwhile I awoke today to a message…
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Hmmm… London buses, internet dating and attempting to be a polyamorist – nothing for a while and then several possibilities all at once – and am I grateful? Well -yes – but also a little peeved – more anon… So, before the break-up with my most regular lover, I knew I wouldn’t be seeing him…
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So – I no longer have my fabulous sub-identifying Friend with Benefits I was sort of dating; but the force through the green fuse” that “drives the flower” is still pulsing away. I asked my subby cross-dressing Spiritual Elf about bondage just out of curiosity as he is such a “busy” character, but is very…
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You may have noticed – I have a bit of a thing about attitudes to older women and assumptions about their sexuality. And sadly – in our society “older” starts at the perimenopause! So – I was listening to the Welsh news and discovered that in Wales there are women going through the menopause, and…
