The Spinster's Exploits

…well – I guess a girl has to start somewhere – and this girl is 70 and very excited at having bought her second bondage kit – but this time she was going to christen it on someone else!

I don’t really ‘get’ bondage – but know some lovely people who do – including my gorgeous polyamorous switchy lover who mainly identifies as a sub man and who happens to enjoys spicy vanilla with me – and I think that may qualify for the “it’s complicated…” relationship category! He (Gorgeous poly etc…)had a perfectly lovely time shackled and alone in an uncomfortable position for about an hour or so on his recent visit to his Mistress. The kink community have a fabulous motto – Your kink, not my kink but ok – and this is one of those for me. I’m delighted he is getting what he wants.

But – being restrained for a beating or for erotic play and/or fucking? Bring it on! I joke about enjoying ‘bondage-lite’ and being restrained as outlined. I have ties, tape and some flimsy handcuffs that I enjoy being used on me.

So, my first purchase of a less flimsy – but still soft-core – bondage kit must be about fifteen years ago before the Great God Amazon was the provider of all desires – including kinky paraphernalia as I’ve recently discovered! It was a set of webbing with adjustable wrist and ankle cuffs that you put the under mattress so the cuffs come out top and bottom of the sides of the bed to attach to a spread-eagled person. I think I got it on line but can’t remember details. It was a birthday present for my lovely long-term friend-with-benefits and we christened it in a hotel room in Tenby as part of his birthday celebrations and I was the one secured down. Happy days!

And I got to thinking it would be rather fun restraining my current lover for beating and teasing again – but with something a little sturdier than scarves and ties as I used the first and last time I tied him up (https://spinstersexploits.blog/2025/09/17/domme-ing-it-up-part-2/ )

This time around, I was awash with online sellers of bondage kits and found ones that fitted my memories of the one I’d previously bought. They all seemed to be made in China – like so much else – whoever the seller – so I reluctantly went for Amazon for a quick delivery.

It arrived and seemed perfect for my middle-of-the-road bondage plans. And made my bedmaking far more challenging and entertaining than usual! All that was now needed, was a wonderful lover to fit into the cuffs…