I am so pleased I managed to sneak in my first encounter with a new lover just before reaching my 71st birthday – Being 70 has been amazing! I am so lucky to have such a good life, and finding my gorgeous lover last April was just amazing. I can hardly believe what fun we’ve had erotic and otherwise. And while I was aware and respectful of the fact he was on a “journey”, I was stunned at my own thoughts, explorations and developments – so much for old dogs and their aversion to new tricks – mine have been fabulous – the mental, emotional and sexual – and such fun!
So – my new lover is a lovely ex, who is recently out of a monogamous, heterosexual relationship. I knew he liked cross-dressing, but family life had put the brakes on that, somewhat. It seems he has emerged chrysalis-like out of vanilla monogamy into bi-sexual TV territory and swinging. We also appear to still have chemistry, so we met and had a compatibility test! I remembered he’d mentioned fantasies about being spanked when dressed as a woman, and seemed very open to that becoming a possibility. And it seemed talking about the possibility was rather exciting for him. And it also seemed that he responded very well to my newly discovered Domestic Domme and was very happy to pleasure me while I bossed him around and suggested things I could do to him when he was dressed in his finery. I think we’re going to have fun.
So 71 – no birthday spanking so far, but I shall be seeing my “established lover”(?) tomorrow! Need something shorter than my Polyamorous Friend-with-benefits who I’m sort-of dating…
Ps – I am also in talks with another interested ex. When I had a birthday chat with my gorgeous PF-w-B(etc) he suggested Sanatogen! I immediately remembered the strapline of “fortifies the over-forties”! Not sure what would be suitable for a tee-total, non-coffee-drinking 71-year-old whose sex-life seems to be entering a new phase…
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