The Spinster's Exploits

Sex, sensuality and possibly spanking after seventy…

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The Spinster is a 70-year-old South Walian who doesn’t believe sex, sensuality and fun stop at seventy. There is more to growing old disgracefully than wearing purple 💜- although she does love purple! She considers herself to have dual sexuality as she loves vanilla but something gets unleashed when she is spanked by the right person… She is excited to have reached this significant milestone and thrilled to discover erotic possibilities can be there for the taking. Oh! And she can be a touch up herself and talk about herself in the third person – but nothing a good spanking won’t cure!😉🤭

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  • Reflections on the Sub and Switch ‘Journey’ and Curiosity – strap in for some rambling navel-gazing! Part 1

    Don’t you just hate how we’re all on our mythical ‘journeys’ and stepping out of our ‘comfort zones’ as we push ahead with our dancing on ‘Strictly’, walk despite blisters on the latest pilgrimage reality show or brag about our latest beating on a BDSM site? I do! I roll my eyes and sigh at…

  • Neutral with lingerie, stilettos and a much needed cuppa…

    After my amazing experiences with a very successful time dominating my lover with chastisement and glorious sex – plus his choosing to take charge of me for pleasure and pain – it seemed like a good idea to reset the dial to neutral – with added lingerie and see where we’d end up… I’ve got…

  • Some Pleasure and Some Table-Turning

    After a long and pleasant day at Brecon Jazz, we awoke for a chilled Sunday morning. And after reviving with a cuppa and a cuddle, my gorgeous lover gently took back the reins, as a casual stroke of my breasts reduced me to the chaotic and turned-on confusion he has mastered so well. He decided…

  • Sexual Domme-ination…

    So my gorgeous switchy sub seemed to respond well to my direction and had an exquisitely striped and reddened arse when I thought I’d earned a little break. Determined to keep control of him and his very perky cock, I decided it was time for me to be pleasured. Now I adore my nipples –…

  • Solo delight/quickie

    Wow – just done something I’d not done in over a decade. Got so turned on while on my own during daylight hours, I actually came upstairs for a wank! Now this is something I do solo at night because I’m having erotic thoughts or having trouble sleeping, but a special trip upstairs out of…

  • Finally, I  get my hands on him…

    …not to mention canes, bath brush, paddle and carpet beater – but I did wonder if it was going to happen… So I’d been wondering if I should go for unleashing my fragile baby domestic domme on his toughened flesh and sensibilities. He had enjoyed her first time round, but then turned the tables rather…

  • Oppression and all that…

    As a fifties-born feminist I really struggled with my desires and fantasies. I love the way young women and men now accept fantasy and play as just that and it’s all fine. There seem to be no issues between feminism, equality and one’s inner life for young feminists. The confusion and battle were brought back…

  • Fat is a Feminist Issue

    You have to be of a certain vintage to know that this is one of the things that made Susie Orbach famous long before she met the Princess. And the Sad Princess is a lesson in how the most gorgeous of us have body issues. I owned this book when it came out in the…

  • My plans in tatters,,,

    …so there I was in all my finery, with discreetly planted weapons of moderate damage when I got the message about the traffic… it seemed I would have to wait for the pleasure of disciplining my lovely switchy sub…  and it is hard to get entirely comfortable in drag queen heels – still – all…

  • Worthiness…

    In between my lovely erotic adventures. ordinary life goes on – including housekeeping and everydaynesses. As a retiree my time is my own but I have my routines – various groups and activities – which have mainly stopped for August – that month of holidays and/or grandparenting duties. So I awoke this morning with my…