The Spinster's Exploits

So my 50-something chaotic time-poor slightly kinky widower – I did see him and I have now had the discussion about timings, and it seems he’s very happy to have monthly get-togethers at the reasonable time of about 10 0n a Saturday, when I will bravely sacrifice my Welsh chat group!

Quick recap – and I’m not sure what I’ve already said – I met my lovely 50-somethingC-T-PS-K-W via a dating site and were getting to know each other before Covid. We planned to see each other when the first lockdown started. After several months of isolation, we decided to start seeing each other. Prior to this, I’d been celibate for a while and remember telling my best female friend that what I really fancied was a decent shag!

Now – as said – I don’t have vaginal orgasms, but I enjoy the sensations of fucking, and never really fancied anything else “up me”. I may also have said I DO own a rabbit – bought after all the hype – but my first reaction was to feel a bit daunted by it! I get my vibratory kicks from something more clitoral. I have had various iterations of “magic wands” influenced by the great Betty Dodson, but my vibe of choice nowadays is a single speed bullet.

So – back to decent shags of the unfeathered kind – My fabulous 50-somethingC-T-PS-K-W is a very decent shag indeed. I wear shoes and stockings of his choice and away he goes – like a very refined and imaginative version of the Duracell bunny! He knows my erogenous zones, loves snogging and revels in the fact he can make me very wet very quickly. I get seriously shagged and vibed in various positions, and he enjoys looking at my feet and watching me come.

I am doing my best to preach quality not quantity, but he loves me having several orgasms and always keeps count! I’m pretty chuffed that despite being an overweight 71 year-old I can get my feet wrapped around his shoulders, and he rather likes that too! I also like scissoring as it can be deep but quite slow and relaxed as well as quite intimate.

After two strong vibe-induced orgasms while fucking, I’d decided I’d had enough of the vibe, and was just enjoying the penetration, when we moved to scissoring and access was easier, and another orgasm seemed quite appealing…

And we finished – as so often – with the intimacy of good old missionary where I could see his face as he finally came…

I guess staying on good terms with one’s exes has definite advantages, as sometimes they can reappear in one’s life. Our first time back together was lovely and had a delightful familiarity, but this second encounter just seemed more relaxed, without losing the heightened eroticism of newish beginnings – very hot!

Once again I count my blessings at having such lovely men in my life to brighten my spinsterish days…