The Spinster's Exploits

Sex, sensuality and possibly spanking after seventy…

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The Spinster is a 70-year-old South Walian who doesn’t believe sex, sensuality and fun stop at seventy. There is more to growing old disgracefully than wearing purple 💜- although she does love purple! She considers herself to have dual sexuality as she loves vanilla but something gets unleashed when she is spanked by the right person… She is excited to have reached this significant milestone and thrilled to discover erotic possibilities can be there for the taking. Oh! And she can be a touch up herself and talk about herself in the third person – but nothing a good spanking won’t cure!😉🤭

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  • What ls Sex, Anyway?

    I just love this response to the question posed and answered in “The Ethical Slut”. And I really did laugh out loud at that last sentence! – Enjoy! “The word “sex” gets used as though everyone agrees on what it means, but if you ask people what they actually do when they have sex, you’ll…

  • On Love and Orgasms

    So – the theory is – you know it when you feel it – often delivered by a smug, older person about love and not sure who the orgasm guru is… Well from the great height of my 70 years of experience – I dare to challenge! I have loved and loved well – and…

  • Virtue Rewarded?

    Well, I had another lovely weekend with my gorgeous lover after much amusement about treating his skin like porcelain. We managed to find pleasurable activities that did not damage his skin and others that caused passing marks on mine, but faded fairly quickly. Luckily we both love good vanilla, and we seem to be able…

  • Virtuous circles – some passing thoughts…

    We hear lots about ‘vicious circles or cycles’ – or feedback loops – how one bad thing leads to another and another and on to first and we’re on a grim merry-go-round. A classic example would be feeling miserable so eating as compensation. But overeating makes us put on weight so we feel more miserable…

  • Thwarted!

    Well, last weekend was truly amazing despite (because of?) the hijacking by his gorgeous Wicked Willie cock… And we did get to play with my new toys. Despite looking like a bit of dowelling you’d get from a DIY store with a plastic rubber-like handle, I love my new cane for receiving and giving. And…

  • Sedate Walks (mostly)

    My lovely switchy sub and I had a lovely weekend of erotic fun and chilling, and also managed to fit in three walks. I enjoy introducing him to the pleasures of my environs as well as sharing the pleasures of the bed and sofa! It was a grey weekend but we managed to dodge the…

  • There are three of us in this relationship….

    Unlike the then Princess Diana, I am not at all bothered by my lover’s Mistress, who is well worthy of her capital M. And we decided from the beginning we are open to other erotic and playful opportunities. Our third party made his presence felt at my first very amateur attempts at domestic discipline. While…

  • Pensioner Sex

    So, there we were – downstairs again after lying around chatting in bed and listening to music and possibly some sexual activity – on one of the hottest days of the year. I was in a thin nightie and he was in a robe and apparently sweating buckets. So – naturally – I suggested he…

  • Meandering Mindfulness Musings

    I was trying really hard. I am rubbish at getting in the zone for my mindfulness sessions. But there I was in a comfortable position with a chair the right height and my feet firmly grounded. I decided to count my breaths in and out with a simple one, two, and listen to his voice……

  • Joy – the Dalai Lama and Archbishop Desmond Tutu (Arch!)

    My lovely switchy sub and I were chatting in bed as you do – and to my delight I discovered he too was a fan of the wonderful Dalai Lama and the much-missed Desmond Tutu. And he’s never seen “Mission Joy – With Archbishop Desmond Tutu and The Dalai Lama”. It’s now 10 years old…