The Spinster's Exploits

Sex, sensuality and possibly spanking after seventy…

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  • So, there I was happily imagining how I’d dress, how I’d speak to him and how I’d get to use my lovely new strap, and I wondered if the new cane would arrive and whether it would be any good… And I was somewhat shocked and as undone as a swooning Victorian virgin when I…

  • I did an interview for a spanko mag in 2004 and it was put to me that: “At the moment [I was] clearly enjoying [my] spankee status, but it’s common for women to outgrow this and become increasingly dominant” I was then asked if I thought I’d ever switch. I responded: “How intriguing! Well I’ve…

  • As said in my earlier posts, I am aware my lovely switchy sub lover is far more kinky and BDSM than me. And my recent mainly vanilla experiences had made me self consciously defensive as to my ‘label/s’ as I sally forth with my adventures as a septuagenarian. I believe I get as good an…

  • There had been misunderstanding, confusion, tiredness and travel. She was unsure what to expect but was reassured at the sight of him as they renegotiated their boundaries. They decided they were polyamorist friends-with-benefits who were sort of dating – maybe! And with that were relieved and content. And despite her genuine concern for his well-being,…

  • This is a nice, safe boring post just to garner likes while avoiding my other posts and drawing attention to your blog – knock yourself out. Today I am blogging before 8 and before my morning cuppa and ablutions. Radio 4 is burbling from my bedroom and later I will be doing tai chi and…

  • She was getting a little obsessive about the hasty, outdoor switchings she’d received on her last day out with him. She was also – embarrassingly – getting weak-kneed at the sight of the rather battered hazel switch shoved in the urn; and her vibe was getting far more use than was dignified for a seventy-year-old…

  • She could not escape the images and remembered sensations. Who’d have thought a hazel switch jokingly picked up in a park could have such an effect on her bottom and her psyche? They had laughed as he experimentally swished it, And then he told her to lift her dress and she did. And the hurried…

  • I have considered myself for some time to have dual sexuality. I know I have a kink but I adore vanilla sex. I had fantasised about spanking and being spanked since junior school and when I finally masturbated for the first time at nineteen – I was a late starter! – the subject was only…

  • Well it’s 1.51 pm and I should be asleep but I’m emotionally skittish and couldn’t sleep so decided on some distraction. Wonder if this lovely, inoffensive and fairly vacuous post will get liked as did similar thrilling post. Seems my other stuff is not at all popular…. I wish you all love and good stuff.…

  • I love some of the novels by Philip K Dick – dodgy on women, but amazing imagination and thoughts on the condition of man/the male of the species as well as flowing prose. Michael Sheen actually championed Dick on “Great Lives” and like me is a fan of “Do Androids…” and “Flow My Tears The…