The Spinster's Exploits

Sex, sensuality and possibly spanking after seventy…

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The Spinster is a 70-year-old South Walian who doesn’t believe sex, sensuality and fun stop at seventy. There is more to growing old disgracefully than wearing purple 💜- although she does love purple! She considers herself to have dual sexuality as she loves vanilla but something gets unleashed when she is spanked by the right person… She is excited to have reached this significant milestone and thrilled to discover erotic possibilities can be there for the taking. Oh! And she can be a touch up herself and talk about herself in the third person – but nothing a good spanking won’t cure!😉🤭

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  • A Spinsterly Christmas – Home alone…

    …and happily so. I am enjoying this season of festivity and having a new polyamorous lover in my life that I’m sort of dating. We had a couple of sleepovers at his around the Solstice and I went to my sister’s for a Solstice lunch. And at his, I was cooked for and looked after…

  • Celebrating the male orgasm…

    I try not to assume what my lover wants or is up for, but of course one does assume and have patterns – nevertheless I try… Once again, I had had an amazingly erotic time, resulting in my orgasm through lots of attention from him and my trusty vibe – and it was obviously good…

  • She wasn’t famed for the strength of her knicker elastic…

    …the fabulous words of Libby Purves on some of the shady ladies of Ambridge on the Radio 4 Archers Podcast – as insults go, this is a fabulous way to put down the less sexually continent! And a good reminder of the amazing history of some of the womenfolk and a reflection of the changes…

  • Jane Austen Anniversary – Lady Susan

    It’s 250 years ago this week that Jane Austen was born and she’s being celebrated on the Beeb and elsewhere, so I thought I’d re-read the “big six”. On checking order, I came across “Lady Susan”, an epistolary novella that pre-dates the big hitters. I think I’ve read it before. But it made less of…

  • Some (welcome but) unexpected Domliness – and a further battle in the War of the Soxes…

    So it’s been a while since I blogged – sometimes life gets in the way of writing and of sex and play, but I love the way sex and play can be in one’s connection with one’s lover – and so it is,  even when we don’t do more than have a quick snog or…

  • Some Vanilla Thoughts…

    I tend to watch catch-up TV and I pay ITV and Channel 4 catch-up to be ad-free. Now Netflix are showing some ads and I’ve watched some live TV recently, I am now taking part in that great British pastime – moaning about the ads! The one I absolutely hate is the one with people…

  • Try a little tenderness…

    I am reminded of the great Otis Redding song composed and written by Woods, Campbell and Cornelly. An unexpected weekend made me take time to think about friendships, relationships and love in its many varied forms. My friend Nina who is a whole six months my senior, is having health problems that are potentially life…

  • The Spinster meets the swingers…

    I was once between relationships and ended up agreeing to go to a sex party. This is how it happened: At 29 I met – and confused – some West Country Swingers. I religiously bought and read Forum magazine to keep me informed and open-minded, but my alternate sexuality as a wannabe spankee was still…

  • “You don’t have to have sex with me,,,”

    …The words I whispered to my lover on the way to the loo in the pub. He immediately burst out laughing and said I should blog my words – so I have! And now for the context. He arrived for a weekend with a stinking cold and gave me the option of not seeing him,…

  • More than moaning…

    I couldn’t resist moaning about him moaning about me moaning – but I had a fabulous weekend with him – as usual. He’d arrived tired on the Friday and so I stripped out of my fancy lingerie and we just got straight into bed after the obligatory cuppa and he soon perked up enough to…