The Spinster's Exploits

Well I’m now back to (relative) civilisation and my lovely home. I loved our naturist holiday although neither the weather nor the ambience were quite what I’d expected.

On our final day we saw some caravanners including a naked bloke getting something from his car. And I had a naked walk around the lagoon and a paddle in said water. My lovely Polyamorous friend-with-benefits was fully clothed as we were ready to go home – and it was easier for me to pull my dress over my head than for him to divest himself of jeans, t-shirt etc.

As said – I normally write upstairs at desktop, but thought I’d have a go of doing so in the conservatory on my phone. I can always edit on computer and it’s nice to sit here for a change as I reflect on life, the universe and the trivia that is this spinster’s life.

Luckily for me I love being away and also love coming back to my little house and my routines, so win-win. I have caught up with The Archers, read The Observer, done some puzzles and enjoyed an afternoon – and now evening – in the conservatory. I enjoyed the earlier light and warmth of the limited sun and am now basking in the radiant heat and light available on this quiet evening at home.

It’s over a year since I turned 70 and decided to enjoy new adventures, and a year last week since I first met the fabulous PF-w-B who has kept me entertained and helped broaden my horizons, so a time for reflections.

My PF-w-B is absolutely certain he doesn’t want to ‘settle down’ and I get that, but realise I see myself as ‘settled down’ although not exactly conventionally! The fact I love my home and routines makes me feel settled – if not ‘settled down’. I wanted adventures of the intimate and erotic kind, but was open to what they may be like.

Finding a polyamorous free spirit was exhilarating and enjoying ‘sort-of-dating’ as long as it suits us is fabulous. And while I was happy that he had his Domme, and we were both open to other adventures, I never expected to feel as open to all sorts of possibilities as I do now. I just love our switchy, spicy vanilla, casual intimacy and companionship.

I am also excited for him and his potential fun with others as well as his special bond with his Domme and his future planned Domme/sub events. And I seem to have acquired a trainee sub to match my trainee domestic domme in my Spiritual Elf. And it appears that my updated profile on a certain site is getting mild interest so who knows what the future will bring?!