As I was driving home from tai chi I started to muse – as one does – on my lovely polyamorous free spirit I’m sort of dating and his determination not to “settle down”. He obviously has his own history and “journey” as he is not a life-long batchelor, but it occurred to me that when he says “settle down” he really means “tied down”. I was thinking – of course – metaphorically, as the term usually means an emotional and public attachment to one other person. And of course my brain immediately slid from metaphor to reality and I got the giggles. He absolutely would love to be tied down – as long as ropes, chains, bindings and/or cuffs are involved and there’s a time limit!
He loves bondage! And he happily stays secured in uncomfortable positions alone at the whim of his Mistress. And unsurprisingly – as I have witnessed – he will happily be constrained for pain, teasing and pleasure.
My LPFSetc has caught up with my blogs and informed me that he sees me as “settled and comfortable” I decided on faux-outrage and informed him that he made me sound like I could be his granny! I decided he should pay for the insult so I think next time I see him I will have to test the bondage kit now hidden below my mattress and – hopefully – out of sight of my lovely cleaners! And the nipple clamps and pin wheel must be feeling neglected too…
Of course – I AM settled and comfortable and like to think I make friends and lovers feel the same. But – hey – a bit of contrariness adds to the spice of spicy vanilla! And I did thank him nicely for his feedback and acknowledge him as my initial muse and established lover – wonder if those are roles one could put on a CV…!
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