The Spinster's Exploits

I was just thinking about “that” ad when I was looking for cyber thrills, while keeping my knickers literally and metaphorically in place!

I still find the idea of an old-fashioned hand spanking a really sexy idea. Over a knee is not very practical if you are bigger and older but over his knee along a sofa works rather well. “Assume the position” is all very well, but for me as a spankee rather than full-on sub, holding a difficult position is a turn-off that interferes with the main event – the spanking. And yes – being bent over something is very erotic – as is recent experience of kneeling on bucket chair and bending over the back of it – very weak-knee’d…

And punishment by a lover or potential lover is still the main erotic fantasy. And I’m still very influenced by 50’s movies and imagery – but with stretchier stockings, suspenders and knickers. And I love the petticoats! Bosses, men in authority and similar all still get a starring role, but in SpinsterWorld they want to be with me and are torn between spanking and fucking – although spanking happens as a gateway… In real life, it’s usually easier to trust someone with sex before opening the toy box…

…aah yes, the toy box… I think I lack a dap, but have written about them! Hairbrushes and slippers are wonderful pervertibles lying around the house and hairbrushes are definitely among my favourites. Like a hand they can be teasing and just sexy as a sensation or can pack a hearty and ouch-y wallop!   I have various paddles including a leather one with a Welsh dragon and some wooden ones –  one of which, I acquired in America!

I have a gorgeous old rattan carpet beater and a new one. They provide a great and sting-y thwack, but I worry about their very survival! I still can’t take wooden spoons seriously, but they are mean buggers that have earned their place in the toybox.. I still go weak at the knees with apprehension and uncertainty at the thought of a swishy cane, firm yardstick or whippy plastic ruler but would feel short-changed if they DIDN’T feature! They have earned their place in the urn – too big for the toybox! I love, hate, respect and dread canes.

I still  like clothing to be there for appropriate rearranging and uncovering but in reality, nudity dos not seem at all boring. And I’m still not into humiliation other than actual spanking and appropriate lecture on behaviour and fate, but now find some level of Domination from my lovely switchy but sub-identifying polyamorous lover unbelievably sexy and knee-weakening, especially when I fantasise about him swishing a switch!

And of course I’m happily polyamorous and a bit switchy and have now beaten two men and get very aroused doing so…