The Spinster's Exploits

Well – I had a busy week with family, gardening, dog groomers and everydaynesses so had limited options to offer my potential new lover. Sadly, he was working longer than expected and wasn’t able to meet me on day arranged, but did keep me updated. Radio silence since though, so not sure if the moment passed for him and/or he has charmed someone else nearer home or more available…

Meanwhile another possibility has strolled across my horizon…

Before Covid I met a rather nice, handsome man twenty years my junior. He was a chaotic time-poor, slightly kinky widower with school age children looking for a connection but not a full-on relationship because of his situation. We had chemistry and attempted to meet to take things further, but it was difficult. We finally managed to get together, then Covid prevented any follow up.

And then he lost his job and had more time, and we started to meet at my home, and I acquired a gorgeous younger lover to brighten my otherwise isolated life. And when he got re-employed, it was quite flexible and so our times together continued although now mainly at a hotel nearer his work and home.

His kink was quite a simple one – just certain footwear and he was as happy as the proverbial Larry. We met through a dating site that had profiles and seemed a good match. At the time my last kinky friend with benefits had become more of just a friend and I was missing and fantasising about vanilla – as I told a friend I really fancied a damned good fucking! I love getting spanked, and I love orgasms, but I really enjoy the sensation of getting fucked. As said before – I don’t come through penetrative sex, but I love the feel and the thrusting – mmmmm…I would have welcomed a spanking fucker, but I was focussed more on actual sex than spanking at the time.

And my CT-PSKW delivered. He was very enthusiastic and happy to incorporate my trusty bullet vibe and he loved watching me orgasming in between some very enthusiastic fucking and other attentions. And he was seriously impressed by my magically self-lubricating youthful fanny! And tickled by the fact I was twenty years older than him, and we were having amazing sex…

A change of job and demanding home life and health issues meant that after a few years of regular meets, we called it a day. And it was after this that I had my unplanned celibacy and then met my delightful sub-identifying-but–switchy-polyamorous-lover-etc and also explains why I was feeling somewhat unkinky after celibacy and a very enjoyable few years of vanilla.

So… it seems my chaotic time-poor, slightly kinky widower is still seriously overworked but the kids are young adults, and we’ve been trying to get together but I wondered if it was an unrealistic wish as it’s not proved possible – until now! He is pencilled in my diary for an early morning get-together before he has to attend a meeting! Will be interesting to see how we get on after a gap of a few years…

Oh! And note to self – must remember to write about new neighbours, being the Scarlet Woman, spanking to the beat of “Hit me With your Rhythm Stick”, tai-chi qi gong-meanderings, and “Pudenda to Infinity!”…