The Spinster's Exploits

I can’t believe I’ve not yet written about this – but I repeat -I am over 70 you know!  Anyway – over two weeks ago I attended an event organised by a member of the kink site. She organised or helped to organise a couple of Domme/Goddess-sub events my lovely sub-identifying-but–switchy-polyamorous-lover-etc had attended and enjoyed very much.

This event was in a sports bar that she hired for exclusive use with the bar providing the staff. There was no “play” or nudity allowed, but fetish-wear was encouraged. It was open to members of kink site and a site used – I believe – for swingers and people looking for like-minded hook-ups/casual encounters.

The S-I-B-S-P-L-etc opted for smart casual, but I decided to give one of my new risqué little black dresses an airing. It’s not full-on sex party/boudoir wear but is one of the naughtier Hell Bunny creations. I love HB for their flirty 50s stuff, but this is next level – a corset top with short full skirt and metal fastenings – very cute but not quite everyday wear for a seventy-one year old!

We needed to eat before the do, but I didn’t fancy the faff of changing at the venue, so I wore my fabulous dress with open crotch fishnet tights and red boots, but covered up with a sarong tied wrap so I was almost respectable looking on a super-hot July evening.

Most guests at the do had opted for sexy party wear so I didn’t feel out of place. There were also Dommes in amazing corsets, super sexy plunging necklines, bovva boots and scary high-heels. They were only upstaged by the gorgeous cross-dressers in figure hugging PVC, skyscraper heels and outrageous underwear. And then Cat-Woman sashayed in! S/he wore a shiny black one-piece like a swimsuit with no arse and a thong back! She also wore the most amazing shiny high-heeled thigh length boots, all topped off with cute cat ears!

Some Dom men also peacocked in top-hats, leather and metal and I enjoyed the show. The staff didn’t turn a hair, and everyone just chatted away and caught up with each other. My lovely S-I-B-S-P-L-etc caught up with the folk he’d bonded with at the Domme/Goddess-sub events and all felt very fun and chilled.

And then there were the party games/mingling. All at a level I assume you’d get at a swinging event or at a hen do – racy “bingo” where you find strangers and ask if they own silk sheet or enjoy sex in public – and then mark off a square of your bingo card for every “yes”. This was followed by musical chairs, where you had to find a vacant chair if you’d ghosted a lover or been a “red flag”. For some reason my partner-in-crime stayed seated while this was going on! I stared up in disbelief as he stayed seated to the “ever been spanked?” query while practically the whole room searched for a vacant chair. I was not the only starer – several cross-dressed subs and some impressive Dommes/Goddesses also reacted to his lack of movement – it seems likely they’ll all remember at his next Domme/Goddess-sub event…