The Spinster's Exploits

Well – I now have a new/old younger lover and had a second meeting with my very young potential lover. But at the moment I am nursing a heart attack in a cup – a delicious salted caramel iced drink topped off with cream – and awaiting a man who arranged to meet me half an hour ago…

Lol –  Well, that went well – now on my own again – amused rather than annoyed.

Man in question is a time-poor Dom looking for connections/play-partners. He contacted me via the kink site. We’ve met once and I liked him but wasn’t sure if there was enough chemistry to take things further.

So today he was able to meet me and I turned up on time.

Two minutes before allocated time he messaged to say he was aiming for half an hour later! I messaged back that it was a bit late to let me know and as a punctual person I was already here. I absolutely expected an apology.

He arrived and asked how I was. I responded that I was annoyed and a message 2 minutes before our meeting time should have been an apology and not a rearrangement. He looked confused and attempted to justify and I made it clear I expected an apology. He shook his head, picked up his drink and left!

Don’t think I’ve had a man walk off in a huff since I was a youngster!

Am now sipping my delicious calorie-laden beverage and chuckling inwardly. I guess I no longer have to wonder about our compatibility!

Further reflections…

Of course this is one side of a sorry tale. He messaged to say he would not stand for being spoken to in “that way” and would have understood that it was just life in a reverse situation. Perhaps I was quick to have a go, but I know if I’d rearranged a time two minutes before expected arrival time I’d have been full of apologies not talking about aiming for a later time. Definitely had different world views.

And I guess three lovers and a potential fourth is more than enough! I don’t want to be greedy, and I am not actively seeking new lovers, but there is something exciting about being open to possibilities…