The Spinster's Exploits

Sex, sensuality and possibly spanking after seventy…

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  • Well – I had a busy week with family, gardening, dog groomers and everydaynesses so had limited options to offer my potential new lover. Sadly, he was working longer than expected and wasn’t able to meet me on day arranged, but did keep me updated. Radio silence since though, so not sure if the moment…

  • I suspect I suffer from a kind of health/wellness arrogance. I take pride in things that are mere good fortune health-wise. My weird hormones that mean I had easy periods and menopause and still have a self-lubricating fanny is one such piece of good fortune. My eyesight that requires little help at 71 is another.…

  • Sometimes life gets in the way of blogging and can certainly put a dent into one’s fun. I caught a simple enough cold, but unusually, it flattened me. I cancelled my regular activities as I’d rather not infect anyone else, and I had become a pathetic limp lettuce. I quite enjoyed the forced idleness, but…

  • “Topping from the bottom” is a fabulous phrase and concept I picked up in my early days of Internet explorations when I was a possible wannabe spankee or just a curious fantasist and writer of erotica. It covers some complex ideas. All the “good” folk of BDSMWorld and Spankoland are united in the idea that…

  • So – if you’re waiting for a non-sexual post to “like” – here you go! It may be lefty and woke though – just like me! I just love Broadcasting House and the delight that is Mr Paddy O’Connell and today was utterly fabulous. Thank you, Paddy, for another wonderful start to my Sunday!

  • Sadly, I have come to the realisation that documenting every thought that amuses, entertains or transfixes me is an impossibility. Much as I love writing, and the way that it clarifies my thinking and sparks new ideas – it’s bloody time-consuming! And life is for living. So – I have had a fabulous week of…

  • So – sometimes time just goes faster than I write. Last week I was wondering about: whether old farts can learn new tricks; stream of consciousness and fantasy; orgasm control and lots of stuff I’d already forgotten! I think – without protesting too much, we’ve established I’m a spicy vanilla-loving sensualist spankee who’s become switchy…

  • Nudity and cool baths – good idea to draw curtains/pull blinds… Always have your phone with you in the bathroom, but don’t have phone calls on the loo!!!

  • Sort of! This from the woman who thinks that bird watching and bungee jumping is just like sex and the over fifties – not for all, but age shouldn’t be the barrier to anything you fancy doing. So – my lovely sub-identifying, switchy lover who I’m sort of dating spent Friday night with his Dominatrix…

  • As usual, when I’ve not blogged for a while, I have a headful of stuff I’ve been thinking about. Like: can old farts learn new tricks?; stream of consciousness and fantasy; orgasm control and lots of stuff I’ve now forgotten! But sat back here at my computer I am reminded of my earlier “notes to…