The Spinster's Exploits

Sex, sensuality and possibly spanking after seventy…

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The Spinster is a 70-year-old South Walian who doesn’t believe sex, sensuality and fun stop at seventy. There is more to growing old disgracefully than wearing purple 💜- although she does love purple! She considers herself to have dual sexuality as she loves vanilla but something gets unleashed when she is spanked by the right person… She is excited to have reached this significant milestone and thrilled to discover erotic possibilities can be there for the taking. Oh! And she can be a touch up herself and talk about herself in the third person – but nothing a good spanking won’t cure!😉🤭

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  • Taking advantage of sub men…or not?

    Back in the days when I was attempting to meet potential romantic and sexual partners online, my straight, vanilla male friend was also challenged by the search for a partner. He was the second person I “came out” to and was my best male friend at the time of the whole agonising process of me…

  • I have the soul of a goth teenager…

    Not sure if I’ve already mentioned this – I am seventy-one you know! Anyway – it’s something I realised and often reflect on. I’m sure it was always there, but I blame a particular charming ex for awakening my awareness and unleashing the availability of material to feed my predilections – and he so does…

  • Musings on one-night stands

    Being of my time and disposition I don’t have much of a history of one-night stands or casual hook ups – not a judgement thing, just not really for me. My early sexual history, ethics and beliefs simply didn’t make it a likelihood. And then I became a serial monogamist who felt sex was part…

  • Pimping my Lover

    I’d not seen my lovely Established-lover-etc… for a week so we had a catch up by phone. He’d had a great time at his Goddess/Domme-sub event giving foot massages, being a footstool and generally doing as he was told – except failing to maintain a tip-toe position without trembling! I forgot to ask what the…

  • The joys and challenges of a septuagenarian spinster – The bedside drawer

    I was on my way to the bath and had a quick look in the bedside drawer for some moisturiser when I spotted two packs of antacid indigestion tablet and thought – must take one downstairs. Then I noticed the chain of his nipple clamps over my vibe and thought – what an interesting still-life!

  • My Newish Lover, Spanking a Spiritual Elfish Schoolgirl

    As said – I have a new lover who is an ex into cross-dressing; and is on an interesting  excursion from vanilla monogamy into bi-sexual TV territory and swinging. Having confirmed the chemistry, and both passed the compatibility test we arranged to meet again.  He is also quite spiritual and a crystal lover. Despite his…

  • Three Weekends – no sex, birthday spanking and finally playing with my new toys*…

    It all seems ages ago now, but life sometimes gets complicated with the everyday stuff as I’m sure most can appreciate. So – the weekend after my birthday we found ourselves having a wonderful no-sex and no-erotic-play weekend of “blobbing” It was a later start than usual, as the cleaners came mid-afternoon. I was recovering…

  • Trailer: A no-sex weekend, a birthday spanking and a Spinsterly Sunday …

    …although not necessarily in that order… Life has been busy, so I’ve been planning my blogs, but somehow not got them written so far. Last night was the film “Song Sung Blue” – a fabulous film that made me laugh, gulp, wipe my eyes and – I think – say “Oh, no!” and “Fuck!” out…

  • A new lover!

    I am so pleased I managed to sneak in my first encounter with a new lover just before reaching my 71st birthday – Being 70 has been amazing! I am so lucky to have such a good life, and finding my gorgeous lover last April was just amazing. I can hardly believe what fun we’ve…

  • A sexless blog – Reflections on “The Dice Man”, memories and more recent purchases

    You know that thing where you’ve not thought of something for years, then get two reminders of it, in two days? – that type of thing? Well, I saw a copy of the 1970s novel “The Dice Man” in Oxfam and then read an Observer magazine review where the subject commented on its influence on…